An "America letter" from dear ones who had emigrated is a very special thing in Swedish culture - a window into a brave new world. This is my try to repay the debt for all the youthful energy and playfulness we Swedes have been inspired by. What I have to offer seems to be needed - the often times irritating ;) wisdom of an older brother who has grown up and wised up a bit - but who loves you and dont want you to come to harm.